The more time I spend alone with God, the kinder and more patient I become.
The more I rush from one thing to the next—and from person to person—the more edgy, reactive, and stressed I feel.
So how do we find peace?
We make time to be with the Prince of Peace.
If you’re struggling with your attitude toward your spouse, your work, your children, your finances, or anything else, you won’t be able to simply think your way out of it. True peace doesn’t come from willpower alone. It comes from allowing God to settle your heart, nurture your soul, delight in you, and remind you that He loves you and remains in control of all things.
Last night, I was grouchy. Marilyn was getting on my nerves. Everything she asked me to do irritated me. As I stood at the grill, I caught myself thinking, Just leave me alone. I know how to start a grill and cook chicken without you correcting the order or making sure I do it perfectly.
Yet when I am at peace, resting in Christ and living in His sabbath rest, I hardly notice moments like that. And when she does offer input, I’m able to receive it with honor and grace.
So when your attitude isn’t stellar, don’t just give in to it or try to fight it on your own. Break away. Step into silence. Spend time alone with your Father.
I once heard it said, “The true test of spiritual maturity is how you are when no one else is around.”
My prayer for you is that you find rest, peace, and joy at the feet of your Father, the One who created you, loves you deeply, delights in you, will never forsake you, and has secured your eternity.
Action Item:
Spend five minutes each morning asking God how to love your spouse well that day. Then, do your best to walk out what He shows you.
